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Choosing Firmness

Watch videos to see just how firm each firmness is!

Firmness Options

Our toys come in a variety of firmnesses. From soft to frim and many steps in between. We are one of the few toy makers who offer split firmness and the ONLY one to offer all toys in all firmness combinations. The videos help give a visual to just how firm each firmness is.

Single Firmness Options:

  • Soft is the most yielding firmness we have available for insertable toys. It compresses and bends very easily. With Forget-Me-Knot toys this means they are very squishy. Some models such as BahBarr, Poppi, or even Dammerung will have difficulty remaining upright on their own in this firmness. (Platinum Silicone 00-30)

  • Medium is the middle of our firmness options.  More difficult to compress than the Soft firmness and generally doesn't bend much on it's own. With Forget-Me-Knot toys this means they are still squishy, but have a bit more rigidity to them. This firmness is ideal with anal toys that are shorter. Some models will still have difficulty standing on their own (being top heavy) but most are more stable than in Soft firmness. (Platinum Silicone 00-50)

  • Firm is the hardest firmness that we have available. It is difficult to compress; it springs back to its original shape very quickly when bent and released. In general, it is pretty unyielding. Best for short toys or Forget-Me-Knots you want to feel non-stop. (Platinum Silicone Dragon Skin 10)

Split Firmness Options:

We also offer "Split Firmness". This is when one part of the toy is cast of one firmness and another part is cast in a second firmness. This allows for a variety of combinations and experiences with the same model of toy. 

  • Soft / Medium is when the knot or base is SOFT and the tongue or shaft are MEDIUM firmness. Listings will say SOFT KNOT-MEDIUM TONGUE or SOFT BASE-MEDIUM SHAFT.

  • Soft / Firm is when the knot or base is SOFT and the tongue or shaft are FIRM firmness. Listings will say SOFT KNOT-FIRM TONGUE or SOFT BASE-FIRM SHAFT.

  • Medium / Soft is when the knot or base is MEDIUM and the tongue or shaft are SOFT firmness. Listings will say MEDIUM KNOT-SOFT TONGUE or MEDIUM BASE-SOFT SHAFT.

  • Medium / Firm is when the knot or base is MEDIUM and the tongue or shaft are FIRM firmness. Listings will say MEDIUM KNOT-FIRM TONGUE or MEDIUM BASE-FIRM SHAFT.

  • Firm / Soft is when the knot or base is FIRM and the tongue or shaft are SOFT firmness. Listings will say FIRM KNOT-SOFT TONGUE or FIRM BASE-SOFT SHAFT.

  • Firm / Medium is when the knot or base is FIRM and the tongue or shaft are MEDIUM firmness. Listings will say FIRM KNOT-MEDIUM TONGUE or FIRM BASE-MEDIUM SHAFT.

We are able to create toys with firmness splits in odd locations (like the head of a toy being Soft, the shaft being Firm, and the base being Medium) upon request. We also are able to “fade” or transition from one firmness to another (a Soft shaft transitioning gradually to a Firm base), or “core” toys with a Soft outer layer and Firm inner core. These toy options fall under our Custom Commissions category and requires the request to be send via email so we understand exactly what you'd like done.

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